Nyx Melody, LMHC
Queer and Non-Binary Licensed Psychotherapist, Clinical Supervisor, & Anti-Oppression / LGBTQIPA2S+ Consultant
Who I am…
Hey there! I am Nyx Melody. I use they/them/their and fae/faer/faers pronouns. I am a queer and non-binary, genderqueer, trans femme New York State licensed psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, educator and consultant on anti-oppression, mental health, and LGBTQIPA2S+ issues. I have had experience working with individuals, couples, and groups who are struggling with various issues, including but not limited to: trauma/abuse, gender/sexual identity, anxiety, depression, substance use, acculturation, racial identity exploration, and dismantling internalized inferiority and/or superiority.
I graduated from the Point Park University with a bachelors degree in Psychology. I completed a dual masters degree from Teachers College, Columbia University. I also teach as an adjunct professor at Teachers College, Columbia University and New York University.
Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs & Fae/Faer/Faers
My Approach
I have had the privilege of working in and amongst diverse populations, which has reframed my approach to therapy in order to ensure that it is more adaptable, accessible, and demystified. Listening, validation, curiosity, challenging, and accountability are important features of my approach to my work with my clients. Therapy for too long has been a space that perpetuates the harmful ideologies in psychology that are rooted in whiteness, capitalism, and dehumanization. Therefore, I draw upon queer, intersectional feminist, humanistic, multicultural, trauma-informed, decolonized, and anti-oppressive theories to foster an egalitarian and collaborative relationship.
In therapy, I utilize tailored approaches that meet my clients needs and goals, which change and adapt throughout our work together. Through consultation, I seek to amplify the messages and teachings of Queer, TGNC, & BIPOC to create affirming practices/policies. As a supervisor, I aim to assist my supervisees and colleagues with developing culturally responsive approaches to therapy.
Remote & In-Person
Due to COVID-19 restrictions and safety concerns, we are offering remote therapy and coaching services using the HIPAA compliant website Doxy. Some in-person availability starting Feb. 2022.
Nyx is also available to provide supervision, consultation, and guest speaker services via online platforms and in-person.
What I Offer
Therapy
I offer therapy and coaching services for individuals, couples, and groups. Session fees are offered on a sliding scale. Sessions begin on a weekly basis and move to biweekly as progress towards identified goals are met.
Supervision
Assisting pre-licensed and fully licensed clinicians with developing and honing multicultural counseling skills, infusing anti-oppression into clinical work, & affirming practices for working with LGBTQIA+ clients.
Consulting
Organizations or companies that are in need of workshops and trainings in mental health, LGBTQIA+ affirming practices, trauma/abuse, & anti-oppression to foster a more inclusive and healthy atmosphere.
Guest Speaking
Providing mental health and wellness information in panel discussions and other social events. Topics include: LGBTQIA+ affirming practices, Trauma, Anti-Oppression, & Racial Identity Development.
Ready to get started on your journey towards healing and growth? Have questions? Need a referral?
Articles by Nyx Melody, M.A., Ed.M., LMHC
Non-binary Microaggressions in Psychotherapy
I came to learn through my own consultations with prospective therapy clients that I wasn’t alone in my experiences of encountering gender based microaggressions. Although I don’t believe that all of the following microaggressions were intentionally meant to harm non-binary clients, it’s important to center the impact of our questions and statements as clinicians.
Avoiding Burnout
Burnout is not an immediate response, but instead an ongoing process that occurs when one feels overworked, overwhelmed, and unappreciated. The signs of burnout can be physical, emotional, and/or behavioral. Physical:: feeling tired/unmotivated, frequent headaches/muscle pain, or changes in eating/sleeping habits. Emotional:: feeling numb, detached or helpless or having an ongoing sense of failure/doubt. Behavioral:: social withdrawal/isolation, lashing out at others, or increased alcohol/drug use.
Pride
This year is the 50th anniversary of the first gay Pride march, known as the Gay Liberation Day March, which took place in NYC on June 28, 1970. For the first time in its history, the parade has been canceled due to the COVID-19 pandemic. However, this is not a cancellation of PRIDE itself and many events continue to occur virtually. This pause creates a time for reflection as well as a chance to “wake-up,” especially for those of us who have been pacified into complacency by our own privilege.
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